To simply focus on carrying out your moves without considering the possibility of making a few sex contacts with the help of your moves does not make sense. There are times when I find myself being aggressive and virtually stripping on stage simply because I find many well endowed individuals watching me dance. The fact that I have managed to excite well endowed men makes me feel very excited myself.

This does not make me a loose woman. I simply know what I want and do not mind having fun as I get what I want. The truth is that very few individuals have the courage to put themselves up on stage for other men to judge their assets and body features. A woman who has this confidence will not mind using a pole to make men hot and hard for her. This merely reinforces the extent of power that women have over men. Fortunately, this issue is often confused and the entire process is equated with degradation of women. That is definitely not the case.

Of course, I do not mind dancing in front of fat and flabby men because I then treat it as a part of my exercise regimen and make sure that the moves help me stay fit. This is a useful option that helps me sustain my motivation for those days when really hot hunks come to watch me dance.

His words stung and I was not prepared to accept that our relationship needed assistance from such third-party websites. As it turns out, there was nothing wrong with our relationship and especially the sex part of it. He just happened to have too many expectations from me without bothering to reciprocate. However, I decided to join pole dancing lessons in a bid to impress my partner.

That is when I discovered that I was good at it and love the idea of showcasing my physical assets. The fact that I happen to earn a lot of money in the process was an added advantage. I understood the significance of my decision to go in for pole dancing lessons when I entered into a relationship with another individual. He was simply blown away by the fact that I could dance so well. I found it easier to manage the ups and downs in my relationship because I had something that would make him happy no matter how badly I have behaved.

Needless to say, I am in a position to sustain myself in the same relationship simply because I can fall back on pole dancing whenever things go from bad to worse. There are times when I mess it up on the stage. However, my partner is more than willing to excuse these mistakes because he is astounded by the fact that I am ready to do something so special for him. I guess that is what a man really wants from his woman.

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So often, and usually when I don’t expect it, I hear girls talking about how they’d love to learn to pole dance. It kind of makes me sad and excited and happy all at once: I’m sad because I am thinking Well, just get to it! Oh dear, maybe you never will and I’m excited and happy because it makes me wonder how much fun they are about to have if they do dare to take the plunge.

Because I can tell you, it is FUN. I love doing it, and if you give it a go I know you’ll love it too!

My first lesson…it went something like this…

I had no idea what I was in for. I’d replied to an ad in the paper, spoken to a woman named Barbara, and now here I was standing outside her door ringing her bell.

I was getting there. It was all starting to make sense

When it opened I got the shock of my life. Here was an enormous woman standing before me in next to nothing. Not fat, exactly; weirdly she was both large and toned. She welcomed me in with a massive hug and the place smelt of perfume. Everything inside the house was sparkly and gorgeous.

“You just be Sarah,” she said, “I know you made the right choice coming here today!”

It freaked me out a bit but her laugh was so infectious that I couldn’t do anything but smile and say, “Well, I think you may be right.”

Ten minutes later I had sore legs and all I could think was: we must look like a couple of slappers

It didn’t last, though, because soon I was absolutely loving it. Barbara showed me all kinds of amazing moves on her living room pole and I even started to get the hang of it. I was nowhere near as good as her, of course, but I was getting there. It was all starting to make sense in some strange kind of a way.

Then the lesson was over and I was putting my clothes on and leaving. It felt like a sad time, but it wasn’t that sad: we arranged a lesson the following week and it was just as much fun, if not more!

Now I have as much experience – maybe more – than Barbara and this, all this fun, is my job and I love it.

I’m so glad I replied to that ad that day.

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